Ruth is more than a survivor. She’s full of joy, a giggly young woman
who hopes to restart her life when she returns home in February with
two mechanical arms.
Two years ago, while cleaning tables in her parents’ restaurant in
Oga Odan, her hometown, a drug-crazed madman burst in and began stabbing
Ruth, hacking off parts of her arms. After an eight-month hospital
stay, she returned home, maimed and helpless.
She learned to eat by scooping food with the stump of her left arm
into the crook of her right arm. She was forced to abandon plans to
study accounting and learn to drive. But Ruth had faith that Jesus would
help her. Her faith prevailed. Tunde and Friends Foundation, a
nonprofit that supports disabled Nigerians, funded Ruth’s airfare to
Southern California and living expenses here.
She’s staying in Colton with Tunde Akinremi and his wife, Titi, the
amazing folks who brought her here. Tunde, 57, is himself disabled, a
paraplegic who uses a wheelchair. Titi, 58, is a doctor. The married
couple have residences both in Colton and in a southwestern city in
Nigeria
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Ruth wasn’t easy to interview because of her limited English and
bashfulness. Tunde Akinremi, 57, a math teacher in Pomona, interpreted
for her at the clinic, while she awaited being fitted with her left
prosthesis.
Ruth is beautiful, with huge black eyes and close-cropped hair. But
the photographer, Dave Baumann, videographer, Chris Ercoli and I were so
taken with this spirited young woman, we stayed nearly three hours at
the clinic.
She’s thrilled with her new appendages and has quickly mastered
eating ice cream on a stick, answering the phone, dressing herself and
boiling water. Mike Openshaw, the clinic’s head prosthetist, fitted her
last week with her left arm, teaching her all seven positions. Both he
and Ruth’s occupational therapist, Cathy Armitage, say she’s doing
extraordinarily well.
It’s easy to see why this team fell in love with Ruth. She doesn’t
pity herself. She’s not bitter. She doesn’t even rail against her
assailant, who succumbed to mob justice after they doused him with
petrol, set him on fire and watched him die.
She’s eager to reclaim her independence. She shed no tears during the
interview. Filled with hope and expectations, she constantly breaks
into wide smiles and sometimes, song.
We”ll be following her progress until the day she boards a plane, returning home with new arms
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